Dan Markel’s Meaningful Life Ends in Senseless Death.
Words from Jay Michaelson in The Forward on his friend’s death.
Dan Markel’s Meaningful Life Ends in Senseless Death.
Words from Jay Michaelson in The Forward on his friend’s death.
A few minutes to hear what happened at Gush Etzion yesterday
Israelis, Palestinians Defy Recent Violence To Break Fast Together : NPR.
Like so many others, I find myself in a place of anguish. The violence perpetrated upon both Israelis and Palestinians is overwhelmingly sad and tragic. I struggle with the hatred and resultant terror, death and destruction. Whether the cause is righteous or even justifiable, the price that the innocents pay is too great. And in the end, we all have blood on our hands, forever changed by war.
Today, many of us observe a fast. The 17th of Tammuz is traditionally a fast day for the Jewish people, marking catastrophes and heartbreaks in our history. It coincides with the fast of Ramadan. We join together praying that our sadness might transform into hope, that the killing might end, that the hatred might cease, that the opportunity for peace might appear as rays of light shining through the cracks in the broken vessel in which we find ourselves.
To learn more about this event, look to the website:
https://www.facebook.com/JewsAndArabsChooselife?hc_location=timeline
I share the following poem written by two religious leaders from Jerusalem, Sheikh Ibtisam Mahamid and Rabbi Tamar Elad-Appelbaum, shared with me by my colleague, Rabbi David Ackerman.
God of Life
Who heals the broken-hearted and binds up their wounds
May it be your will to hear the prayer of mothers
For you did not create us to kill each other
Nor to live in fear, anger or hatred in your world
But rather you have created us so we can grant permission to one another to sanctify Your name of Life, your name of Peace in this world.
For these things I weep, my eye, my eye runs down with water
For our children crying at nights,
For parents holding their children with despair and darkness in their hearts
For a gate that is closing and who will open it while day has not yet dawned.
And with my tears and prayers which I pray
And with the tears of all women who deeply feel the pain of these difficult days
I raise my hands to you please God have mercy on us
Hear our voice that we shall not despair
That we shall see life in each other,
That we shall have mercy for each other,
That we shall have pity on each other,
That we shall hope for each other
And we shall write our lives in the book of Life
For your sake God of Life
Let us choose Life.
For you are Peace, your world is Peace and all that is yours is Peace,
And so shall be your will and let us say
Amen
To our brothers and sisters throughout the world and especially in Israel,
שבת שלום
In the aftermath of four dead children, we need to carefully assess who we are, not who we believe ourselves to be. It is hard to be self-critical, but it is critically important. The tragedies of the four slain boys is deeply shocking and painful. What it can tell us about ourselves is a step toward understanding those we currently consider adversaries on so many levels and how we might find a way to live together. The horrible reality is that we have been sacrificing our children for way too long. Our tradition compels us to continue to seek another way. It will be hard and fraught with obstacles and disappointments.
Israel is a nation of laws. Once, the aspiration was that Israel would be a nation like all other nations. But in fact, we hold Israel to a higher standard of ethics and morality. Although inevitably she will fall short of our ideal, it is the aspiration that makes her the land of hope for all Jews. We support and love her and commit ourselves to striving to reach the ideal where all children might live in peace and security. We have much work to do. Let everyone use the tragedy that has befallen all of us to dedicate ourselves to the possibility of achieving peace someday
May we find peace and solace this Shabbat.
We include the name of Mohammed Abu Khdeir to the names of Naftali Frankel, Gilad Shaar and Eyal Yifrach this evening as we recite Kaddish Yatom. We ask of the Divine One:
May the One who makes peace in the high heavens
make peace for us, for all Israel and all who inhabit the earth.
Amen.
עֹשֶׂה שָׁלוֹם בִּמְרוֹמָיו הוּא יַעֲשֶׂה
שָׁלוֹם עָלֵינוּ וְעַל כָּל יִשְׂרָאֵל, וְעַל
כָּל יושבֵי תבל, וְאִמְרוּ אָמֵן
Oseh shalom bimromav, hu yaaseh shalom aleinu,
v’al kol Yisrael, v’al kol yoshvei teiveil,v’imru.
Amen.
Baruch Dayan Emet, We mourn over the loss of innocent lives, Naftali Fraenkel, Gilad Shaar, and Eyal Yifrach.
There will be time for other emotions, thoughts, reflections and actions.
But for now, it is time to grieve.
Dear Lisa,
The vote in Detroit cannot evoke little else but great sadness and regret across Jewish America. We have worked to build bridges and foster relationships with Presbyterians that we thought were based on an abiding mutual respect of the truths embodied in each other’s commitment to our faiths and traditions. Today however, it is hard to feel something other than betrayal.
The Jewish people have a deep connection and commitment to the State of Israel. They are inextricably bound together. However, there is a great rise of anti-Semitism in the world. It is becoming blatant in many places and in others it is cloaked in the garb of anti-Zionism or anti-Israel policy. Anti-Semitism exists in this country too. We are watching our young people under assault on college campuses across the country, targeted with deliberate and calculated attacks against their identity and intimidation tactics that repress any exchange of ideas other than ideas sanctioned by those that have usurped control of the conversation.
Many of us are dissatisfied with the actions of the settlements. Many of us believe it undermines efforts toward the creation of a respect that permits the emergence of a state for the Palestinian people. This however, is far different from actions that are taken as a result of existing hostilities that represent an existential threat to Israel and its citizens.
The construction of the fence/wall was done in response to a history of violence perpetrated by those willing to inflict damage and destruction on a civilian population within Israel. As ugly as this harsh concrete barrier may appear, it has in fact all but eliminated bombings and other murderous violence. The responsibility for peace resides on both sides of this conflict. The history of violence and the existential threat that continues to be espoused from the Palestinian side can only be willfully ignored.
Also, within Israel the need to continue to expand civil rights protection undoubtedly exists. Many of us actively work to promote the broader and fuller equal application of the law to all who live in Israel. There has been much progress made in this realm, although much more work needs to be done. We are proud of our active role in promoting and broadening civil rights in Israel. We are deeply committed to the State.
The existence of the State of Israel has been part of our DNA, an aspiration as a people for two thousand years. The State was bought on the back of hardship and persecution unlike anything the world had ever seen. The State of Israel exists and she has a right to do so. That does not delegitimize the rights of the Palestinian people. But it unequivocally says that the existence of the State of Israel is undeniable and irrefutable. The efforts to delegitimize Israel cannot be tolerated or supported.
Unfortunately, the actions taken by the Presbyterians do precisely that. The BDS movement has declared this a great victory. Whether that was the intent of the resolution, the effect is a victory for BDS and those ultimately seeking the elimination of Israel. This happens on the heels of the release of Zionism Unsettled, a book of vitriol and falsehood. It is a volume that vehemently denounces Israel, Zionism and ultimately the Jewish people. It is a shameful and terribly hurtful treatise that remains on sale and available.
The acts that can be construed as hurtful, the publications that can be construed as hateful and the complete insensitivity to the history and values of my people makes this vote a horrible breach of faith and trust. You cannot claim to love me, if you are willing to engage in actions so egregious, deeply hurtful and offensive to me. There are other and more constructive ways to promote change.
I believe that it is a moral obligation to only invest in companies that do not profit from persecution or oppression. For Hewlett-Packard, Caterpillar and Motorola an interesting and rather broad understanding of persecution and oppression seems to have been applied. I cannot help but wonder whether the same level of scrutiny has been applied to every investment held in the portfolio and a stand against oppression and persecution is consistently applied to the many horrors and traumas suffered by victims of hatred and war across the globe and even here in this country.
There are many ways to constructively engage in the Middle East. I understand the Presbyterian community has been so involved in the West Bank and in Israel. These were areas where we were in agreement, where we could work together where we would not undermine or attack the intrinsic values of the other. However, the Church has decided to take another course. It is a divisive course that has done great damage to our relationship.
I deeply hope for peace in the Middle East. It is good for everyone in the region and it is good for humanity. I hope that we can find ways to repair the damage that has been caused by this action. I know your commitment to the principles of your faith and I hope you can appreciate the effect these actions have.
Thank you for the chance to share this with you.
L’Shalom,
David
In Naso, we are introduced to the Nazir. A Nazir is one who purposefully separates himself or herself of the community by abstaining from certain luxuries or conventions, taking a vow as part of a spiritual search. This is the issue of the individual’s quest for meaning.
We see the idea of a vow as a chance to be in closer communion with God. It is an extraordinary commitment as the individual, man or woman, commits to refraining from some basic of things. This particular vow seems to contradict the idea that we are in community; the Nazir does things that by their nature separates him/her from societal norms: The Nazir does not drink, does not cut his/her hair, not to be near the dead, even including those for whom even a Kohen would. At the end of the vow’s timeframe, the Nazir brings a sacrifice as a Sin offering and a second as an offering of well-being signaling the vow is now concluded and fulfilled.
Once the Nazir has made the appropriate sacrifices, Aaron blesses the people with the Priestly blessing. This is as though through the process the Nazir endures in the sacred separating and the sacred re-joining, the whole people become worthy of God’s blessings.
Like the Nazir we too try to find meaning in our lives. We reflect and act to give life purpose. The path we walk in that process can be difficult and often lonesome. We might find a need to separate ourselves from those we love or things that are familiar in order learn and grapple with the hard questions we confront in our lives. We do things that set us apart, not unlike the Nazir. However, our tradition teaches are not hermits or ascetics. Parashah Naso teaches that our path needs to lead us back to the community. When we return, we are changed and, we pray, better off for the journey. When we return and again become a participant in our community, we enrich our community as well.
We see this understanding of the Nazir play itself out all the time in our modern lives as well. Our young people for example, venture out from the family in their quest to find their paths, to challenge the paradigms they have learned in their youth and as they seek wisdom and growth. We call this going off to college. Our children leave us as adolescents and hopefully return as thoughtful young adults. In other even more noble pursuits, many of our best and brightest make a vow in the form of enlisting in the military to serve their country. The ideals they embrace they are willing to defend with their lives.
We give our young the best we can. And then they leave. We pray that they will be safe on the journey and return to us whole. Then we know that indeed The Eternal has blessed us and protected us and caused The Divine Countenance to shine upon us.
A beautiful poem I shared for Yizkor Shavuot by Yehuda Amichai-
My father was God and did not know it.
He gave me
The Ten Commandments
neither in thunder nor in fury; neither in fire nor in cloud
But rather in gentleness and love. And he added caresses and kind words
and he added “I beg You,” and “please.”And he sang “keep” and “remember” the Shabbat In a single melody and he pleaded and
cried quietly between one utterance and the next ,“Do not take the name of God in vain,” do not take it, not in vain,I beg you, “do not bear false witness against your neighbor.” And he hugged me tightly and whispered in my ear“
Do not steal. Do not commit adultery. Do not murder.”
And he put the palms of his open hands
On my head with the Yom Kippur blessing.“Honor, love, that your days might be long On the earth.” And my father’s voice was white like the hair on his head.
Later on he turned his face to me one last time
Like on the day when he died in my arms and said
I want to add Two to the Ten Commandments:
The eleventh commandment – “Thou shall not change.”
And the twelfth commandment – “Thou must surely change.”
So said my father and then he turned from me and walked off
Disappearing into his strange distances.
אבי היה אלוהים / יהודה עמיחי
אבי היה אלוהים ולא ידע.הוא נתן לי את עשרת הדיברות לא ברעם ולא בזעם, לא באש ולא בענן אלא ברכות ובאהבה. והוסיף לטופים והוסיף מילים טובות, והוסיף “אנא” והוסיף “בבקשה”. וזמר זכור ושמור בניגון אחד והתחנן ובכה בשקט בין דבר לדבר, לא תשא שם אלוהיך לשוא, לא תשא, לא לשוא, אנא, אל תענה ברעך עד שקר.וחבק אותי חזק ולחש באוזני, לא תגנב, לא תנאף, לא תרצח. ושם את כפות ידיו הפתוחות על ראשי בברכת יום כפור. כבד, אהב, למען יאריכון ימיך על פני האדמה. וקול אבי לבן כמו שער ראשו. אחר כך הפנה את פניו אלי בפעם האחרונה כמו ביום שבו מת בזרועותיי, ואמר:”אני רוצה להוסיף שנים לעשרת הדברות:הדבר האחד-עשר, “לא תשתנה”והדבר השנים-עשר,”השתנה, תשתנה”כך אמר אבי ופנה ממני והלך ונעלם במרחקיו המוזרים.
—Yehuda Amichai